I’m sure all of us have experienced ragging in some form or another in our life time. Most of us have experienced it either in school or college.The practice of ragging is prevalent since ages. In India ragging is done to break the ice between juniors and seniors in colleges . The juniors would have to do certain activities like singing, dancing , immitating an actor or doing favours for seniors like buying a pack of cigarettes. Normally it was a practice to bridge the gap between seniors and juniors. Constructive form of ragging has its positive points. You learn about humility, respect for superiors, and anger management . You become a refined person and you learn to deal with life situations in a better way.
But over the past years ragging has taken a new form. Of late there have been so many incidents of ragging, where the victims have lost their lives. One such incident is that of Aman Kachroo who died after being ragged by seniors in the Rajendra Prasad Medical college. Ultimately one day he was killed by these group of boys under the influence of alcohol. He was just nineteen years old and I must say a real good looking guy. Due to such heinous incidents , the practice of ragging has become quite unpopular. It has been banned in most of the colleges.
Does ragging have to be so serious where the victim looses his mental peace and ends up loosing his life ? In India, Engineering and medical colleges have been hubs of ragging. What starts out as fun and exciting normally takes an ugly form. The famous Bollywood Actor Amitabh Bachan has said that he’s experienced severe forms of ragging which can’t be described.
Ragging that takes place in schools is termed as Bullying. It can classified as Physical, verbal or emotional. The ways boys and girls bully are different. It’s more physical in the case of boys like kicking, fighting and pushing. In case of girls it involves passing negative remarks on dressing, on your body, passing negative remarks on family members, mocking, provoking and ignoring on purpose. This comes under emotional ragging. I have’nt been spared of it either and had my fair share of it. Why do children bully ? Kids who do not come from warm and loving homes and who do not get attention are more likely to bully. They feel inadequate, so by bullying they get a sense of power.
Healthy ragging is acceptable as it makes you more refined and cuts your superiority complex. I’m totally against ragging where the victim has to loose his dignity and the torturers gain some sort of pleasure out of this. Bullying in schools have to be controlled . Famous celebrities who have been through ragging are Eminem, Rihanna, Tom Cruise, Selena Gomez, Jessica Alba and among Indian celebrities Amitabh Bachan, Arjun Rampal and Rahul Dev.Have you ever been ragged or bullied ? Please do share your views and experiences.